One Meal at a Time

Do you ever feel overwhelmed by emotions or life circumstances? 

Most of us are more susceptible to eating off our food plans when we are hungry, emotional, busy or tired. And for some of us, that’s every day! 

We need a plan that helps us take our thoughts captive and battle those tempting food thoughts. We need to practice stepping outside of the overwhelm and taking our emotions to Jesus.

Today I want to share with you how I handle those crazy, stressful moments when I am face-to- face with big emotions or food temptations. This is my step-by-step way of taking thoughts captive and submitting them to God. 

We’ll use word FOCUS to guide us through.

  1. Find a quiet place

The first thing to do when you are feeling overwhelmed or agitated is to step away from the situation. Get away from the noise. Step away from the food. Change the scenery. Press pause on whatever is going on and take a few minutes to be alone.

  1. Orient yourself to the present

Often our stress comes because we let our minds run into the future or get tangled up in the past. Try orienting yourself into the present moment by using your five senses. 

Focus on what you can see around you. How many colors or shapes can you find? How many different textures can you feel? Now close your eyes. What do you hear? What can you smell? What can you taste? Try taking a drink of water or some other beverage. Focus on the temperature, taste, and smell as you drink.

Just take a minute to really be right here, right now. 

  1. Connect with your emotions

Turn your focus to your own body. Do you feel tension anywhere? Do you need to cry? Are you angry or anxious? Breathe deeply and lean into those emotions. Acknowledge them without judgement. Assess if there is anything you can do right now to make yourself more comfortable.

  1. Unburden your heart

Now that you have calmed your nervous system, take a minute to unburden your heart! Talk to God about whatever is going on for you right now. If necessary, repent. Pray for wisdom. Jesus delights in carrying our burdens. You are not an inconvenience. Getting to help you gives Him joy!

  1. Savor Christ

And finally, savor Christ. Drink in the deep love and acceptance that can only be found in Him. I encourage you to mediate on any scripture you know. Singing a worship song. Pray a prayer of gratitude and praise. Just let yourself be with Jesus.

Savoring the truth of His Word renews our hearts and our minds. If you take the time to submit your heart and thoughts to God in prayer, then scripture promises that the peace of God will guard your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:6-7).

You may need to stop and FOCUS again and again. This isn’t a one and done kind of thing!

Rather it’s a daily, hourly practice that will help all of us take our thoughts captive and walk in the freedom we have in Jesus.

Do you need more help learning to FOCUS? Simply reply to this email and let me know what challenges or questions you may have that I can address in future posts. I would love for us to grow in this practice together as we all learn to savor Christ more deeply.

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For a long time I resisted the label of food addict.

I am a lot of things: Chosen, Redeemed, Forgiven, Child of God. In some ways, identifying myself by my sin feels wrong.

However, I have to be careful not to forget that I do struggle with food addiction.

When I have a string of good days, it can be tempting to think that I am all better and can eat normally again.

When I am surrounded by normal, non-addictive eaters, I start to think I can eat just a little and be okay.

But that is not how my brain works.

When I sit and talk to other people who struggle with compulsive eating, I am reminded of how easy it is to forget.

I hear stories of people who chose to take that first bite off plan and the pain that quickly followed.

I am reminded of how hard it is to come back from a binge, and how the addictive cycle always just gets worse the more we give in to it. 

And I am not unique or special. Their stories are my story. I’ve been in the ditch, and I could easily go there again.

My recovery isn’t something to be taken for granted. It’s a precious gift, and I want to honor it with every food decision I make.

And so today I want us all to remember that while we have been set free from bondage to sin, we are still living in the body, a temporary dwelling, that is weak and in need of protection.

I pray the Lord will help us to remember the pain of addiction but also cherish the freedom we have been given.

Let’s live surrendered to His plan for our lives, one meal at a time.

Kristy